Archive for the 'Friendship' Category

Make Wiser Choices, Stronger Friendships and More Opportunity by Visualizing Your Circles of Connection

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

When meeting Natasha, photographer Rick Smolan never imagined she’d be an emotional thread of continuity for his life. Human stories take unexpected turns, especially next year. 

I’ve got your back and you’ve got mine. That’s a mighty welcome feeling as we enter 2009.  Why?  Because, more than any of the last 25 years, 2009 will crackle with change, unexpected loss and fresh opportunities to [...]

Spreading Joy Isn’t Just a First-Hand Experience

Wednesday, December 24th, 2008

The sweet scent of the narcissus plant wafts upstairs to me just like the lingering memory of my uphill neighbors, an always upbeat Irish couple in their early eighties.  Stopping off on their daily walk, they knocked on my door early this morning to deliver the plant, their holiday gift, knowing I would be up [...]

“How many friends do you have?”

Tuesday, December 9th, 2008

What kind are they? How important? As pundits discuss Obama’s frenemies, these questions probe the other side of our psyche. UK sociologists Ray Pahl and Liz Spencer asked them in a study that led to a book, Re-Thinking Friendship. Updating a theme in Bowling Alone, they discovered:

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Co-Create Short Films of Holiday Gatherings

Thursday, December 4th, 2008

Some people duct-tape small cameras to their dogs’ collars to see life from another perspective. (Dog is their co-pilot) Yet you can enlist human friends to co-cover the scenes of your lives.  AmericanWinery, for example, sent Flip video cameras to their winery partners, inviting them to record “daily operations, tastings, harvest footage” and other glimpses at the back stories behind wine lovers’ favorite [...]

Marry Me! Big Way to Involve Others in Your Romantic Proposal

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

After the war, my father worked on a fire lookout station in a remote forest in Oregon.  He called my mother on the (public) government phone line, asking her to marry him.  Thank goodness she said yes because he took quite a ribbing from those on other lookouts who could not help but hear him.  [...]

Be an Opportunity-Maker by Making Apt Introductions

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

Bill Murray said, “I went to Second City, where you learned to make the other actor look good so you looked good and National Lampoon, where you had to create everything out of nothing, and SNL, where you couldn’t make any mistakes, and you learned what

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The Art of Being Business Partners & Friends

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

For starters, a warped sense of humor helps. When he first came from New York, shortly after college, Paul Geffner began selling handmade leather bound journals, along with a crowd of other street vendors on the sidewalk near The Embarcadero in S.F. Even then people were drawn to

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Spread joy. Send a singing telegram via email.

Monday, July 28th, 2008

Share your own lyrics. Make them up right now at your computer.  It’s simple.  Honest.

Ask Humphrey or Gina to sing them for you. (They’re rather eccentric yet fun.) Then make your friends laugh, smile  … (or cry?) when they receive your singing telegram. Go ahead.  It’s free at kakomessenger.
 Sitting all by yourself in front of your computer too long?  Here’s another musical [...]

Are You Dating Obama? (How Attraction Builds Stronger Relationships, Or Not)

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

When we first fall for someone, we become enamored with everything about that person. We gush. We create things to commemorate their specialness. We feel so connected, we fill in the blanks about what we don’t know. We assume we will like the rest of that person just as much. That’s just human.
If we then [...]

You May Not Fall in Love On Your Next Trip, But….

Saturday, April 12th, 2008

… you may fall “in like” with kindred spirits who are interested in meeting you. In fact you’re likely to make lifelong friends. Here’s how.
Rather than scouting guidebooks for your next dream vacation, hoping to discern not only the best sightseeing spots but the undiscovered foods, customs and places only the locals know about, [...]

 
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