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See synchronicity as signaling the next chapter of adventure you seek, with others

Friday, September 2nd, 2011

Coincidences are often signs of synchronicity, yet they aren’t as obvious as some you may see.
Unless you are looking for patterns.   Then you can notice what you are choosing to notice.
Ironically I discovered Daniel Johnson’s article online about meaningful coincidences by accident because he described an incident in which a friend of mine met her [...]

Invite the Unexpected for a More Adventuresome Life… With Others

Sunday, August 21st, 2011

Odd things can happen when hanging out with those who don’t act right, like you. I got unexpected insights when, with two friends, I walked through the Steins Collection of paintings by Matissse, Picasso and other avant-garde painters in bohemian Paris.
In most every gallery room one friend would sit on the bench in the middle [...]

Seven Successful Ways to Nudge Us to Take Action

Sunday, June 12th, 2011

Mike wasn’t aware that we were closely watching him as he strode into the pool table showroom but he was the ninth unwitting participant in our experiment. He glanced at the sign “Three Most Popular Models” that hung above an ornately carved, antique pool table, flanked closely on either side by a bare-bones model and [...]

Host an Online Community Around Your Passionate Interest

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

Dog lovers, civic-minded coders, Civil War buffs and cyclists have two things in common.
They are ardent about their special interest and thus they are more likely to be active in an online community.
They want to share their experiences and know-how with others who feel as passionate as they do about their special interest.
Some want more. [...]

What’s Love Got to Do With it?

Saturday, May 7th, 2011

In a New Yorker cartoon, a bored-looking couple are sitting apart on a couch, facing a smiling therapist who says, “Any healthy relationship requires fundamental acting skills.” Clearly the Michelangelo Effect is not in play.
Couples who affirm and support each other’s best side also “sculpt” each other in beneficial ways. They become deeply committed and [...]

I Was Completely Surprised by His Behavior

Sunday, April 10th, 2011

Reinventing himself when he arrived at college Sam, “who had never had much luck with women” successfully beguiled a string of women into one-night stands, leaving his male friends shaking their heads in wonder because the women, though dumped, saw him as “sensitive, caring and sweet.” Also odd, Sam took up the habit of frequently [...]

It’s Never Too Late to Start a Group That Becomes Close-Knit

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

There’s a Relationship Revolution bubbling up and you’ve probably seen signs of it.
Rain or shine, for over a decade, my college friend Jane Burns has been walking the same route in Lake Oswego every morning at 7:00 am with the same hardy group of women. Neighbors yet strangers at first, the habit has bound them [...]

In the Face of Fear Connect to Sell or to Collaborate

Sunday, October 31st, 2010

Got a business? Nervous about your future?  Anyone who says they don’t feel fearful sometimes in the face of this uncertain economy is in deep denial.
One symptom, research shows, is that it is literally harder to hear when we’re stressed. That’s a signal to savvy, caring business owners to listen sooner, deeper and longer.
Only then [...]

Make Your Work an Opportunity Multiplier With and for Others

Sunday, October 10th, 2010

“I had a woman in Idaho tell me that her options for employment went from one job to hundreds because of her ability to work from home after receiving broadband,” said DigitalBridge founder, Kelley Dunne.
In partnership with others including Internet providers he offered online access to rural or otherwise “underserved areas of the country such as [...]

Ways to Share That Benefit You and Others

Friday, September 17th, 2010

One Saturday a friend who lives on Nob Hill in S.F.  drove a zipcar over to visit me in Sausalito. He was eager to tell me about his trip to Istanbul, paid for by renting out his spare bedroom. Earlier that morning, via a freecycle posting, a stranger picked up some clay pots I’d set [...]

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