Comments on: Unfair! Revenge. How Women and Men Act http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/ Succeed and Savor Life With Others...by Kare Anderson. What can we do better together? For greater accomplishment, adventure and friendship let’s harness the power of us. Share ways to thrive in this next chapter of your life with others. Sat, 28 Jan 2012 01:24:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Kare Anderson http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/comment-page-1/#comment-1825 Kare Anderson Fri, 05 Dec 2008 18:14:15 +0000 http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/#comment-1825 Lewis Thanks I've been reading them. Have known Ekman for 20 years, went to observe Davidson's lab,,,, great work getting much-needed additional attention - thanks! - Kare Lewis
Thanks I’ve been reading them. Have known Ekman for 20 years, went to observe Davidson’s lab,,,, great work getting much-needed additional attention – thanks! – Kare

]]> By: lewis http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/comment-page-1/#comment-1818 lewis Wed, 03 Dec 2008 18:52:19 +0000 http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/#comment-1818 thought you bight be interested in the conversations between dan goleman and paul ekman, and the one with goleman and richard davidson that are part of the wired to connect series and are available at www.morethansound.net thought you bight be interested in the conversations between dan goleman and paul ekman, and the one with goleman and richard davidson that are part of the wired to connect series and are available at http://www.morethansound.net

]]> By: Kare Anderson http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/comment-page-1/#comment-1691 Kare Anderson Sun, 09 Nov 2008 02:08:02 +0000 http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/#comment-1691 thoughtful comments Steven. Empathy is demonstrating boundaries unlike sympathy yet earlier research shows men are more likely to compartmentalize. More recent research shows the gap is narrowing however. Regarding revenge, sounds like your elaboration re you and your wife on that could be an interesting post. thoughtful comments Steven. Empathy is demonstrating boundaries unlike sympathy yet earlier research shows men are more likely to compartmentalize. More recent research shows the gap is narrowing however. Regarding revenge, sounds like your elaboration re you and your wife on that could be an interesting post.

]]> By: Steven Smith http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/comment-page-1/#comment-1690 Steven Smith Fri, 07 Nov 2008 06:03:42 +0000 http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/#comment-1690 Which one is instinctively negative? More to the point...revenge seems loaded to me. What about <em>holding boundaries</em>. Empathy has its limits in, for example, child raising, and, in my experience, it's easier for me, as a man, to draw the line for my boy. His Mom is naturally more empathetic, and we watch each other. I learn empathy; she learns boundaries. It would seem to me that, if we are each hard wired a bit more one way than the other: that's good news. Either reaction has drawback, and each is a gift. (Actually, in terms of revenge, that's my wife's territory. It's a very different issue.) Which one is instinctively negative? More to the point…revenge seems loaded to me. What about holding boundaries. Empathy has its limits in, for example, child raising, and, in my experience, it’s easier for me, as a man, to draw the line for my boy. His Mom is naturally more empathetic, and we watch each other. I learn empathy; she learns boundaries.

It would seem to me that, if we are each hard wired a bit more one way than the other: that’s good news. Either reaction has drawback, and each is a gift.

(Actually, in terms of revenge, that’s my wife’s territory. It’s a very different issue.)

]]> By: Kare Anderson http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/comment-page-1/#comment-1680 Kare Anderson Fri, 07 Nov 2008 00:42:56 +0000 http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/#comment-1680 Mry how generous of you -and yes the Obama campaign structure was filled with Me2We methods - as will this administration.... "by the people, for the people..." Mry
how generous of you -and yes the Obama campaign structure was filled with Me2We methods – as will this administration…. “by the people, for the people…”

]]> By: Mary E. Rossow http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/comment-page-1/#comment-1678 Mary E. Rossow Thu, 06 Nov 2008 18:49:29 +0000 http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2008/11/05/unfair-revenge-how-women-and-men-act/#comment-1678 Kare..... and yet again, you hook me and reel me in. Will you EVER write something I do not feel compelled to read? Where do you find all these great resources & articles? I'd love to spend a day either peeking over your shoulder and/or 'inside your head', watching your creative process. Warm Socks, Mary E. Rossow p.s. The theme of the entire Obama Presidency could be "Moving From Me to We" .....will you be serving in his Cabinet? Kare….. and yet again, you hook me and reel me in. Will you EVER write something I do not feel compelled to read? Where do you find all these great resources & articles? I’d love to spend a day either peeking over your shoulder and/or ‘inside your head’, watching your creative process. Warm Socks, Mary E. Rossow

p.s. The theme of the entire Obama Presidency could be “Moving From Me to We” …..will you be serving in his Cabinet?

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